am sick. running a high fever, so wat i am gng to pen here might juz be disillusioned tots of my otherwise "char ta" mind..i love marriage life. cept the household chores, all is great. living in our own house, juz the 2 of us, gng ard in our car, need not report to parents on wat time we coming home, etc, u get the pic.
and most of my frenz are getting married. so happy for them! Ker-Yang, sorry I was sick and missed yr wedding, best wishes to u and adeline! Debra just got married, and she was such a beautiful bride! :) House warming soon? :)
anyways, was thinking abt my life before and after marriage. before marriage, or even preparation for the wedding, i used to hang out wif my frenz. but now its seems that we dun meet up as much when one by one, all are getting hitched. why. the only frenz that i meet up with, no offence, are my not hitched yet frenz. are they more "free" to meet up with frenz rather than spend another day with their other half? no i dun think so. they make an effort to meet up with pple other than their bfs. dun understand. and its across the board. or is it juz up to the individuals?
my hubby, he still meets up with his frenz. and his frenz are mostly married and some are already with children no less.
it may be just me. it can be a bit frustrating when you are the only one who keeps trying to keep the friendship gng by organizing gatherings which magically will not have even a 80% turnout initially, and then the % goes down to 50%, and juz be called off.
but then again, i am glad that they have all found the love of their lives!
see, warned u guyz tat i am penning crap here. ooohhhhhhhhhhhh.. my head hurts...
* This was originally posted on 23 January 2006 at http://annesoh.blogs.friendster.com/blahblahblahsss *
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